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#414400 - 04/25/11 04:24 PM
Re: What is my dog thinking book
[Re: jilly]
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Registered: 02/22/11
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Communication is different with each kind of animal but every animal communicates even if its only to breed. I agree with Illusive.
Many, many moons ago, (ikes 50 years ago, lol) my grandfather taught me how to train dogs and horses through their communication methods. Grandpa was truly a man ahead of his time, he was the original horse whisperer I think.
The most valuable thing he taught me was that unlike humans animals do not pick, pick, pick all day long. They express themselves quickly and with intent and then resume a normal state of mind quickly.
Horses will kick, bite to get their intentions known and if you watch them 10 minutes later they are eating together or resting along side each other, they do not hold grudges and when its over it is over.
When I get called to help someone with a so called "bad horse" I find they are not bad they are totally confused by their human who nags and picks at them constantly, and is not consistent. Usually, it takes a few minutes to let the horse know that I am not "mom" or "dad" but the person who is going to train mom and dad. In all my years of training, I have never met a problem horse, only problem people.
I am an equine sports massage therapist and have worked on race horse stallions all over the country that I was told would never let me go in their stalls without getting kicked. They are young and not disciplined and are usually rough handled out of fear for human safety. It has never failed that in 15 minutes or less after I enter the stall the stallion is relaxed and enjoying a massage while grooms and trainers are shocked.
How you may ask, I am not afraid and I carry myself confident and in charge. In the wild, herds of horses the stallions are not in charge....a dominant mare is in charge. She decides when they move on and what they eat and where they drink and so on. Stallions stay in the back and move the herd and protect what he has.
Just know all animals look to leaders for direction, if you are not the leader they become the leader! That is fine as long as you like their leadership, most times not! And lets face it even in the animal world not all things great and small should be leaders.
Which brings me to my final point. If you take the leadership role remember to respect the role and earn trust, don't demand it. Unfortunately, if you lose an horses respect and violate its trust in you, most times you cannot get it back.
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