Welcome TLB, it's lovely to have you!
Did you read my step by step training, and are you working on it every day?http://www.lisashea.com/petinfo/articles/bird_hand.html
Let me know what stage you're on!
Budgies are often so scared at the beginning that they won't resist out of fright. That's not tame
. So now is the time to start the actual taming process!